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Anton's avatar

This review wrecked me in the gentlest way. I haven’t even seen Flow yet, but your words opened the door to something bigger than a film — a meditation on grief, kinship, and what remains when we’re gone.

The detail about Paul Newman and the Lap of Love email especially floored me. That idea — that animals grieve mindfully, without the psychological baggage we carry — feels like a truth I’ve known in my bones but never had language for.

Also deeply resonated with your reflections on community. We say we want connection, but most of us haven’t built the emotional stamina to stay in it when it gets uncomfortable. Watching a silent cat brave rising waters and form bonds stronger than fear might be the most honest metaphor we have.

Thank you for holding all this with such beauty and precision.

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Al's avatar

I haven't seen the film (adding it to the watchlist) but I loved what you wrote about community.

Aside I just lost my cat (15 yo, orange) on Monday and that greif is rough. I think I have a pretty decent relationship to death but it's still a loss I am taking hard.

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